Surviving a Patriarchy on Steroids came out of a massive two-week long migraine attack, triggered by the inauguration of a sexual predator to the presidency of the United States. I woke one morning, sat at my computer, and vomited up the title, outline, and first chapter.
My migraines stopped as the writing kept flowing.
The book captures the myriad ways that one queer woman has navigated the first year of these turbulent times so that I can stay grounded, centered, and true to my values; generate a sense of hope in the young people in my life; engage in the resistance meaningfully while maintaining a sense of joy, purpose, and spiritual growth; and not succumb to the gloom, doom, and catastrophizing that can so easily immobilize. As Cole Arthur Riley writes in Black Liturgies, “If you aren’t in your body, someone else is.”
“Surviving a Patriarchy on Steroids is a welcomed, well-needed balm for these times. Stephanie Davies captures the rage and grief so many of us are feeling as we navigate a world where men still dominate and cruelty and violence are on overdrive. But at its heart, this book is a love story to everyday women – their solidarity, creativity, and spunk – as they’ve resisted misogyny for centuries and still do. Filled with love, compassion, humor and hope, this is a book to slip into a friend’s pocket to make her laugh, rage, wonder, and remind her she is not alone.” — Beverly Donofrio, author of Riding in Cars with Boys
Bink Books
pp. ●
$ (pb) ● (eb)
ISBN (pb)
SOCIAL SCIENCE / Gender Studies
SOCIAL SCIENCE / Feminism & Feminist Theory
Publication date: August 21, 2026
Stephanie Davies is a communications consultant who worked for many years as the Director of Public Education for Doctors Without Borders. A UK native, Stephanie moved to New York in 1991, where she taught English Composition at Long Island University’s Brooklyn campus and led research trips to Cuba. Before moving to New York, she co-edited a grassroots LGBT magazine in Brighton called A Queer Tribe. Stephanie earned a teaching degree from Aberystwyth University in Wales, and a BA in European Studies from Bath University, England. She grew up in a small rural village in Hampshire, where much of her first book, Other Girls Like Me, takes place. Stephanie divides her time between Brooklyn and the Hudson Valley, New York where she lives with her wife, Bea, and two rescue dogs, Emma and Jean-Luc.